Whether we like to admit it or not, our never-ending quest for love often takes us down rough roads. Filled with curiosity, shame and rejection, it is ultimately continued hope that we will find what we’re looking for that keeps us moving forward, searching.


Over time along this arduous journey, we likely develop preferences about who we are physically attracted to, which types of energies we want orbiting us and – dare I say it – what people we’re willing to risk it all for in a single passionate night.


But at what point on that quest of the heart does preference morph into fetish and ultimately obsession? When that relentless pursuit of a certain type of person we feel will completely fulfill us physically becomes, as in Ecclesiastes 1:14, “chasing after the wind”?


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